Monday, August 30, 2010

A World Full of Maybe...


This weekend was slow & a lil more relaxing. I have to get off this huge roller-coaster ride because it’s starting to affect me more than I’d like. The next 2 days I’ll be running errands, hopefully seeing “Eat Pray Love” & relaxing. Is it bad that I wanted to go to work today so I could relax? Yikes! Well I’m going to introduce a New blog feature for me to get the ball rolling. At the beginning of every week I’m going to do a Weekly Goal to get a jumpstart on some of the mini things I need to get done before I move & somehow get a lil of my sanity back. Lol. Here we go:

Weekly Goal #1: Make a new friend.


I realized recently that all my friends’ lives have twisted & turned as well as mine so I don’t get to see many of them as much as I would like. Relationships, jobs, family, moving away, yeah know the facts of life. It happens but what’s awesome is that when I do see my friends it’s like no time has passed by. I think that’s a measure of true friendship. I also realized that I haven’t made many new friends since high school & my first year of college that aren’t acquaintances. Yeah know the people that you see in the super market or if there’s a huge party & you’ll say hi to them, maybe ask how they are, but it’s not really a friendship. Maybe I’m lonely lately. I’ve been hanging out with CJ so much that I miss my friends but their equally busy so I’m hoping to broaden my horizon a bit.

I might have a chance to make a new friend this week. I might be going to Maryland with CJ & his best friend this coming weekend. The cool part is Cj’s best friend has a girlfriend. I’ve met her a few times & she did come to my birthday party so I’m hoping maybe just maybe her & I can become friends. I’m not going to force it but I’m going to try & be extra nice & maybe we could have a developing friendship. CJ doesn’t get to see his best friend much because he is always with this girl so if her & I become friends maybe we can all do things together once in a while & CJ can have his friend back? Who knows? The girl & I are facebook friends so I’m going to do some research to see if we have similar likes & use that to see. We’re also the same age & used to watch “Buffy the vampire slayer” so maybe we’ll click?

Who knows what this weekend will bring if it happens! There is a rumor of a hurricane coming towards Maryland but I looked at the weather for this weekend & it doesn’t say rain so I don’t know. I had one of my best friends do a very crappy thing to me recently that I’m still not over yet so I think this would benefit me to get some new friends too. I’m going to keep my fingers crossed! See ya later! =)

15 comments:

Diana Mieczan said...

That is a wonderful post,sweetie...I will keep my fingers crossed for that!
Such a great idea to have a goal post,each Monday...I am all on board:)
Hugs and Kisses

Sunshine Sarah said...

This sounds great!
I always have new goals. I write them down on a piece of paper and put them in my heart locket, and every now and then I open it to see if I achieved one of the goals.
It always cheers me up!

Lots of love,
Sarah.

AmyK said...

Best of luck with friend-making! I need to do some of that myself, but I'm clueless as to how. Eh...

drollgirl said...

i love the goal you have to make a new friend! i hope the two of you hit it off!

i haven't made a new friend in quite some time. i need to! it would be so fun to have a new person to hang out with!

Bathwater said...

I have not considered making an new friend in years, especially a new friend of the same sex isn't that strange? What would we do?

Chessa! said...

I love that you will have a weekly goal. I try to do this mentally and I really think it helps me get organized. :)
have a fun weekend..it's great to think about weekends on monday huh? :)

Café Bellini said...

I agree... With good friends it doesn't matter how long we haven't seen each other, we just pick off where we left off!

Krystal said...

i totally love the weekly goal idea- it's not overwhelming and maybe something i can actually accomplish!!

Shauna said...

Best of luck on your goals. What a great idea!

Jennifer Fabulous said...

That is an excellent goal! I hope the girlfriend turns out to be an awesome friend of yours. I know what it's like needing more friends. Mine are moving away every year it seems. Sigh. That's another reason getting older is so hard. :(

Good luck! xo

Jennifer said...

I love the movies you use in your posts! They're always great movies! My friend Christina has the goal of meeting a new person each week. ;) Good luck to you on a fun week!

bananas. said...

well that's an easy goal...you're a blogger! ;)

good luck sweetie. i hope you find a good one.

Jaime @ La vie...J'aime said...

I like this goal! Good luck :)

btd. said...

I hope you and her become friends! I thought I was the only one that did Facebook related research on people, lol. Good luck! :)

CAPow! said...

Good Luck! (though I'm pretty sure you don't need it!) :)

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