Monday, April 11, 2011
Why be a Jerk? Seriously...Why?
I'm trying to think what would be the benefit of being a jerk? I'm not going to limit this to just guys either...girls can be jerks too. Why would someone want to belittle someone & break their spirit just so they can...hmmm feel better about themselves? See the person be upset? Get some jolly out of it? Why??
The reason why I ask is I found out that a certain person I used to know is now treating a new girlfriend like gold. He stopped being an asshole to women & has basically become a new girl's lap dog. Now honestly I could care less about the guy who will rename nameless, I'm very happy with CJ & CJ has NOTHING on this other guy from years ago but I'm sitting here going why the hell did so & so have to treat me so badly when I was nicer than pie to him and now he's being an angel to someone new? It's almost like he found me at a weak moment in my life & just tortured me mentally...AND the funny part was this person was pissed that I walked away from him way back when.
Maybe something happened in his life that made him appreciate women? Meh I highly doubt it. The girl he is now dating lives in Manhatten so there has to be a catch there. He's looking for a meal ticket or something. It really makes me mad because I didn't deserve to be treated so horribly. No woman deserves to be used by some jerk & vice versa. Men should not be abused by mentally crippling women. I remember screaming at this guy in the break-up because he thought I was being unreasonable in leaving. What a jerk.
I almost wish I could warn this new girl to watch out for the commercial of him. I wonder if that is what he's doing. Showing her the good guy so he can turn into the monster that he is later when he has her? Who knows...but for some reason it is really pissing me off that he's being nice to someone new. It's actually making another ex of this guy mad too. Why be a terror? Why?
This goes for everything...Why would someone want to be a jerk? If you could give me one good reason for being a jerk I'll buy you a smoothie. Literallly....