tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post6258657138533895456..comments2023-10-26T09:15:10.583-04:00Comments on Melanie's Randomness: It’s Not Really Lying, It’s Just Withholding Information...Melanie's Randomnesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11331778717585609001noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-21921409811495542572011-09-10T13:05:46.461-04:002011-09-10T13:05:46.461-04:00Hey love! I agree with Jennifer a few comments up...Hey love! I agree with Jennifer a few comments up! I think the surgery info is something she can disclose when the time is right! You don't want to share all of your personal info right when you start dating someone anyway. When you let them closer to you and feel more and more trust, you will know when the time is right. I don't understand the other situation or pretending to be something your not. My husband and I have always shared everything and it has resulted in the most trusting marriage. I was actually asked by the Padres baseball team to come hang out with them after an event and share some drinks. I actually called my husband on the phone and asked his permission, and you know what? He said yes! He totally trusts me and he respects that I ask him. He knows that I told them that I was married and that I would never do anything to cause him not to trust me. I feel like we are a bit special though!<br /><br />xx<br />RachelChicago Chic https://www.blogger.com/profile/01096421257707218003noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-90718128231136280702011-09-10T12:41:34.959-04:002011-09-10T12:41:34.959-04:00I think it is important to let your significant ot...I think it is important to let your significant other know the real you because if you can't be yourself with them eventually... who can you be yourself around? But it is always good to keep some mystery about the small things...<br /><br />Lauren<br />www.laurensthoughts.com<br />@lrstewarAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14407437564246340467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-11282747462595828172011-09-10T12:32:01.815-04:002011-09-10T12:32:01.815-04:00I have told my fiance EVERYTHING! But it wasn'...I have told my fiance EVERYTHING! But it wasn't like it was date #1 and I just rattled off it all. I think over time certain conversations lead into certain topics and honesty is always the best route. It really just shows that you are completely open and makes your relationship even stronger. Also, if he was to get upset ... then the relationship would need to be re-evaluated because if someone can't love your flaws then they don't really love you. <br /><br />Great post. I added a blog roll to my blog and you're on it. <br /><br />worldaccordingtoshia.blogspot.com<br />♥ ShiaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-28908229738407154952011-09-10T03:09:12.549-04:002011-09-10T03:09:12.549-04:00Personally, my boyfriend and I are the over-sharin...Personally, my boyfriend and I are the over-sharing type. We know everything about each other's life that keeping either of those secrets are unfathomable to me. Surely the boyfriend could be a good support with the surgery and as for the pretending to be something you're not, I've never understood that. I even tell my boyfriend when I see someone hot or got hit on when I'm out.Leehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16729253056817760577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-89857268336036398072011-09-10T03:04:24.835-04:002011-09-10T03:04:24.835-04:00this is an interesting topic. i really don't t...this is an interesting topic. i really don't think people need to tell their significant other stuff from their past (esp ex flings and stuff). it is the past and unless it is going to impact who you are with it doesn't matter. saying that it is important to be honest and be yourself, that is what counts.<br /><br />x.bethanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12617547452753868998noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-35379777840909336932011-09-09T21:10:02.918-04:002011-09-09T21:10:02.918-04:00“Well I’m glad it happened because it made you int...“Well I’m glad it happened because it made you into the girl I feel in love with it.” <br /><br />That's what a good man says. :)Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05940369749048830429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-70339825176327840082011-09-09T20:06:39.859-04:002011-09-09T20:06:39.859-04:00Ummm yeah, there is a big difference between withh...Ummm yeah, there is a big difference between withholding an event (such as a surgery) and withholding yourself.<br /><br />I do understand your poor friend's hesitation to reveal her gastric bypass surgery, because that is something that is incredibly personal. I would probably not tell a boyfriend unless the relationship was absolutely serious and I could very well see it ending in marriage.<br /><br />But your friend who has a darker side and doesn't show her true colors to her boyfriend...yeah, that is a disaster waiting to happen.<br /><br />Do you remember my friend Kerrie? Well, my ex-bff, I should say. She pretended to be someone else for almost two years with her bf. She pretended to be a sweet, virginal innocent child who never cussed or said a bad word about anyone. (In reality, she's the exact opposite). It resulted in her having a nervous breakdown in front of him. That shit is serious. Trying to be two different people at once is asking for trouble. :(Jennifer Fabuloushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07521908385026885699noreply@blogger.com