tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post7286035464806917953..comments2023-10-26T09:15:10.583-04:00Comments on Melanie's Randomness: The door is closed...so damn closed.Melanie's Randomnesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11331778717585609001noreply@blogger.comBlogger30125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-55386405496467197742010-02-19T16:40:55.835-05:002010-02-19T16:40:55.835-05:00ouch...so sorry...time will give this perspective ...ouch...so sorry...time will give this perspective and your idea that he is a jerk will only grow...and you will come to know that it is his loss, not yours.<br /><br />Has your mom put up a blog yet? If so, can you give me the address?<br />ElizabethElizabeth Parsonshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02272113895118877329noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-4336368322002888202010-02-18T20:00:28.396-05:002010-02-18T20:00:28.396-05:00I am so sorry you had to go through that and he DO...I am so sorry you had to go through that and he DOES NOT deserve you. Glad you got the hell out of there and are feeling a bit better...proud of you girl!Sierra https://www.blogger.com/profile/00915109851341043600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-20539364679865250742010-02-16T14:51:00.719-05:002010-02-16T14:51:00.719-05:00Glad you made the choice to move on...I don't ...Glad you made the choice to move on...I don't think he's forgotten about you...but he always knew you were there...that you hadn't gone anywhere. It seems like he had her- but somehow felt he had you too. He sounds like the guy that wants what he can't have...2 relationships...not how it works.<br /><br />It's a choice for you to tell him to go to hell, a choice to hang on, and a choice to be happy :)<br /><br />Sounds like you're on the right track! Now that you -don't need him- watch out...he'll probably come on stronger!Rich Life Revivalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03991590226341502032noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-38244187702434695942010-02-16T03:44:08.836-05:002010-02-16T03:44:08.836-05:00Lady, we've been there and it hurts like HELL....Lady, we've been there and it hurts like HELL. I'm sorry. Good for you for deciding it's time to move on. I know how hard that can be. Next year will definitely be a better Valentine's Day.kathleenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04016226496226581236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-34098561198940077002010-02-15T22:41:36.641-05:002010-02-15T22:41:36.641-05:00Sorry you had to go through that whole seen, never...Sorry you had to go through that whole seen, never saw that coming. I hope you can bolt that door closed and find a new door with shiny new hardware and stained glass panels, with the sun shining through inviting you to step on through.Bathwaterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18286545216706532921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-49260252738597949432010-02-15T21:54:12.314-05:002010-02-15T21:54:12.314-05:00Awww....I'm sorry to hear about what happened....Awww....I'm sorry to hear about what happened. guys can be such jerks! Friends to lovers is always possible but from friends to lovers and then friends again, now that is really hard, especially if a third party is involved. Hang in there sweetie. I hope things start looking up for you.ChinkyGirLMeLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02007745771569901081noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-63482837201552903432010-02-15T21:47:44.802-05:002010-02-15T21:47:44.802-05:00Sorry girl. That is horrible. It is good that you ...Sorry girl. That is horrible. It is good that you are moving on though. They can have their hats. Who does that anyway? Hope that you are feeling better now! :o)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-7704540234976731822010-02-15T19:29:27.852-05:002010-02-15T19:29:27.852-05:00bad blogger? not even. when you're sick, you&#...bad blogger? not even. when you're sick, you're sick. no need to explain.<br /><br />hope you feel better now that you've let go...bananas.https://www.blogger.com/profile/07374187632135297641noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-61202258441260033772010-02-15T18:57:12.346-05:002010-02-15T18:57:12.346-05:00I'd say how sorry I am that this happened to y...I'd say how sorry I am that this happened to you, if I didn't think it was a kick starter for you. I spent a lot of my life being angry, hurt and confused over some traumatic things. If something hadn't come along and snapped me out of it, I might still be stuck, wandering around in that haze. I'm glad you're purged of all those awful feelings now, even if it was horrible to endure. Thanks to him, for being such a selfish, inconsiderate person. Now you can move on without giving him another thought. You deserve better than that.Heather Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06948119671292382562noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-12263193584156678392010-02-15T18:08:41.075-05:002010-02-15T18:08:41.075-05:00Omg, I am so, so sorry!! My heart broke for you. S...Omg, I am so, so sorry!! My heart broke for you. Stand strong, girl... even when you feel like you can crack that door open, even just a little, resist the urge with every ounce of your being. Because you will want to. But it's not worth it. YOU are worth far better, so leave that door be.<br /><br />HUGS... JJessihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10246039305632102747noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-17304000080432965972010-02-15T17:20:39.194-05:002010-02-15T17:20:39.194-05:00Melanie, you are a strong, independant woman who c...Melanie, you are a strong, independant woman who can achieve whatever she wants. Remember that. I had a "mess" in my life for about 14 years ... off and on ... but it went both ways. After I met Barry the first time, I saw my "mess" for the last time and said goodbye. I think of him from time to time and hope he's happy...I'm not sure he knows how. But it was certainly liberating. At least you haven't wasted 14 years on this guy. NEXT!Sandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00841951459550135685noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-59302818552423362452010-02-15T15:16:27.472-05:002010-02-15T15:16:27.472-05:00oh god. that must have been so brutal. just awful...oh god. that must have been so brutal. just awful. but at least you have made up your mind that that door is closed. <br /><br />and matching hats? what goons.drollgirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17098844996589898590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-25286348697813264312010-02-15T13:31:36.638-05:002010-02-15T13:31:36.638-05:00Just found you this morning and maybe a reason for...Just found you this morning and maybe a reason for it. I know what it is like to be left for another woman and I too know what its like to shut or slam that stupid dang door. Harder than most realize and lot don't understand how it takes so long to shut it. But believe me it takes some of us longer than others and the faster and harder you slam it the better. Take it from me I waited toooooooo long.<br />Love<br />Maggie<br />Your Tooooo good for him and feel betterGrandma Yellow Hairhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10917551672825097342noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-48540436019880492182010-02-15T12:48:56.174-05:002010-02-15T12:48:56.174-05:00Oh no! I know how that feels and it sucks, especi...Oh no! I know how that feels and it sucks, especially on Valentines Day! Feel better hun!courtneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00368060921177803100noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-18076566550044176742010-02-15T08:59:54.053-05:002010-02-15T08:59:54.053-05:00You can remember him and I think it's good you...You can remember him and I think it's good you remember both the good and bad. It'll help you know what you want and deserve when you get into your next relationship which will be healthy.<br /><br />I'm glad you're feeling better. Now, do something for you this week. Pamper yourself. <br /><br />I'm proud that you recognize how bad he is for you and can move on. Yay!!!!!Little Ms Bloggerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17208746635976950728noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-11938280702909331042010-02-15T08:23:40.683-05:002010-02-15T08:23:40.683-05:00Holy, that must have been terrible to go through. ...Holy, that must have been terrible to go through. You can't help your feelings, Melanie, it is what it is. Next year, like you say. Time helps. Feel much better now.<br /><br />SecretiaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-86729425431276933252010-02-15T08:06:44.476-05:002010-02-15T08:06:44.476-05:00I agree with absolutely EVERYTHING that Angel6033 ...I agree with absolutely EVERYTHING that Angel6033 said, you don't deserve ANY of this. Good for you for closing the door. Stay strong, and move on! Better things await you, I promise!Anything Fits A Naked Manhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07579409446582399318noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-4494074622449722982010-02-15T07:35:06.894-05:002010-02-15T07:35:06.894-05:00Ouch, this sounds like hell!
Sounds to me though ...Ouch, this sounds like hell!<br /><br />Sounds to me though as if he's just replaced you with someone exactly like you!Phttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04425977546505490830noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-85171236705521106892010-02-15T07:15:41.367-05:002010-02-15T07:15:41.367-05:00I wish I was with you. I would have punched him a...I wish I was with you. I would have punched him and stomped on his hat. You really didn't deserve that sickness either. On the up side, you know you have to move on and I am sure that you are stong enough to do it!! Feel better soon!911 and the Randomness..https://www.blogger.com/profile/15124774472813567041noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-40967975666751565072010-02-15T06:19:14.343-05:002010-02-15T06:19:14.343-05:00Hes playing with your mind and ripping up your hea...Hes playing with your mind and ripping up your heart,take a deap breath put on your best face and hold your head up high your ten of him,and his new girlfriend she's the next to fall...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-30352712496202178902010-02-15T05:01:40.955-05:002010-02-15T05:01:40.955-05:00Hope you feel better. I'd have trouble respect...Hope you feel better. I'd have trouble respecting someone that would either a) want to wear matching clothing or b) would try to convince me to go along with it.Christopherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17045294003088106262noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-28642060046871828402010-02-15T04:35:26.419-05:002010-02-15T04:35:26.419-05:00hope you'll be feeling better soon!
lovehope you'll be feeling better soon!<br />loveHanna Hollidayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15795638565078579966noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-18830639637116565982010-02-15T02:26:12.442-05:002010-02-15T02:26:12.442-05:00My heart sank really deep when I read this, Melani...My heart sank really deep when I read this, Melanie. I'm still completely dumbfounded how a beautiful girl like you can be treated in such a horrible manner.<br /><br />I'm glad you are determined to move on. This was the closure you needed, as disgusting as it came about. He is an asshole. It's sad that he is doing the same things with that new girl, rather than sharing new experiences with her. I feel sorry for her. That girl probably doesn't know what a jerk he is yet and when she does, it will be too late. So realize that you're the lucky one in this situation.<br /><br />I wish I could be right there and give you a HUGE hug. You deserve a million. And I hope your stomach feels better soon.<br /><br />Put that disgusting excuse for a human being out of your head and focus on yourself. Get some rest, watch some of your favorite movies, eat your favorite food, and pamper yourself. He's not worth any more tears or thoughts.<br /><br />xoxo!Jennifer Fabuloushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07521908385026885699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-8182587272282411062010-02-15T01:44:33.461-05:002010-02-15T01:44:33.461-05:00oh man, i am so sorry to hear about the mess:( he ...oh man, i am so sorry to hear about the mess:( he really is a big MESS. ugh! i am so proud of u for closing the door tight, melanie! i totally understand how difficult this is, but u're right the situation is just toxic. hope u feel better soon (both physically and mentally). i really do believe that there are better things in store for u in the future:)ohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07990079657089938472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-9030468598273549642010-02-15T01:00:09.929-05:002010-02-15T01:00:09.929-05:00That is absolutely terrible that you had to see hi...That is absolutely terrible that you had to see him with his new girlfriend. And the matching hats(I once saw photos of my ex and his girlfriend in matching Christmas sweaters; it was the worst). Good for you for staying strong enough to close the door and keep it shut. Stay strong, and feel better soon!adihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02884047697397813429noreply@blogger.com