tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post4940009254764665091..comments2023-10-26T09:15:10.583-04:00Comments on Melanie's Randomness: Hello Again, Friend of a Friend, I Knew You When…Melanie's Randomnesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11331778717585609001noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-78375252790141630712011-03-30T07:09:11.190-04:002011-03-30T07:09:11.190-04:00that's an intereting situation, i don't kn...that's an intereting situation, i don't know how i'd feel about it but probably like you!khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12280510323058001105noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-45756035311467493992011-03-29T20:45:39.040-04:002011-03-29T20:45:39.040-04:00I can totally see why it would make you feel weird...I can totally see why it would make you feel weird or upset you. it is weird, and it almost makes you feel used? (Im sure that wasnt CJ's intention BUT still.....)Farnnayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09833826535761502269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-12724796268715003072011-03-29T17:48:35.874-04:002011-03-29T17:48:35.874-04:00I think I would feel weird about that reaction to ...I think I would feel weird about that reaction to seeing an ex too. I've been with M and ran in to two of his separate ex's on separate occasions...and nothing like that ever happened.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07522737346381837048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-74967923425875479012011-03-29T15:14:29.752-04:002011-03-29T15:14:29.752-04:00Honestly, I agree with you that your boyfriend'...Honestly, I agree with you that your boyfriend's reaction was immature. At first I thought he just panicked, but the fact that he's still proud of what he did would also rub me the wrong way. However, that's what relationships are for- to help you grow and learn how to be a better person. It's amazing how exes are the catalyst to people regressing though. It sounds like she really hurt him and he's slowly getting over it. It takes time and that's understandable.Tiffany Kadanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08887874943048853535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-58840963906532367012011-03-29T15:01:40.237-04:002011-03-29T15:01:40.237-04:00haha GREAT TOPIC!!!!!!!!!!! well.... as i dont tot...haha GREAT TOPIC!!!!!!!!!!! well.... as i dont totally agree with seeking revenge on ex's... and i normally would never do anything like that, but if this person hurt u that badly that that ONE jab at them would make it worth it,,, id totally do it.<br />i actually just did it to M this weekend,,,where i put up pictures on facebook from my birthday with another guy... but only bc he has been rubbing things in my face.. and i felt like i could finally have my time to sign in the revenge department. <br /><br />but i can see how it would make U feel uncomfortable bc of that fact...... BUT, since u are most likely and definitely much hotter then her,, i think u should bask in the glory a little bit too..because he obviously thinks much much higher of you then her, so its all around a win win for u... but i can see how u might take it a little awkwardly bc its def no un-awkawrd situation.<br /><br />i hope that makes sense.Teach.Workout.Lovehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06093196435468090916noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-168834522123474712011-03-29T11:32:15.347-04:002011-03-29T11:32:15.347-04:00I have often wanted one of those moments!I have often wanted one of those moments!Bathwaterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18286545216706532921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-63598086992292055322011-03-29T11:23:47.791-04:002011-03-29T11:23:47.791-04:00Oh Melanie, breaking up is hard to do...sometimes....Oh Melanie, breaking up is hard to do...sometimes. Have you ever tried to remain friends....that is a trip!<br /><br />I do have a Giveaway from The Zhush I know you will love!<br /><br />xoxo<br />Karena<br />Art by KarenaKarenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05206642885608991170noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-13743998869063623612011-03-29T10:40:33.306-04:002011-03-29T10:40:33.306-04:00I can see both sides of it. I'm the type to w...I can see both sides of it. I'm the type to want to make someone a little jealous so if I had been CJ I probably would have pulled the same move. However, I can understand why you'd feel awkward as well.<br /><br />From all you've told us about CJ, it's easy to tell how much he loves you. I'd just let it pass.Krysten @ Why Girls Are Weirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07290616156300143483noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-90219071880817241982011-03-29T10:00:54.711-04:002011-03-29T10:00:54.711-04:00I think if you dont feel ok with it all, maybe you...I think if you dont feel ok with it all, maybe you should let CJ know about it and just simply talk about it. Sometimes it helps when you know all the reasons behind. Kisses and hugs, darling<br />Happy TuesdayDiana Mieczanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15261207538442821812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-29114671513695430472011-03-29T09:51:59.481-04:002011-03-29T09:51:59.481-04:00Hmmmm tough decision.... I think it's probably...Hmmmm tough decision.... I think it's probably best to just let it (him) go...<br /><br />xoxox,<br />CCCouture Carriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07401719580947285891noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-72549536766561207302011-03-29T09:47:58.744-04:002011-03-29T09:47:58.744-04:00I don't know. I think that taking revenge on a...I don't know. I think that taking revenge on an ex, by showing that you're with someone new and better, is somewhat immature. To me, it makes me think that, instead of moving on, you are still interested, even if slightly, in the other person. You want them to see that you're with someone new. I've never been a fan of it myself. :/Cafe Fashionistahttp://cafefashionista.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-53523012213211335322011-03-29T08:21:17.110-04:002011-03-29T08:21:17.110-04:00I'm assuming since it was a St. Patty's da...I'm assuming since it was a St. Patty's day celebration that alcohol was involved, and as an Irish girl who loves a drink or two, I think that's how the tipsy me would have played out the scene too. Of course, it probably isn't the BEST way to do it, but if it made him feel better, then so be it. :)Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05940369749048830429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-61249355982020852152011-03-29T07:30:25.114-04:002011-03-29T07:30:25.114-04:00hmmmmm, I see what you mean. I think it might both...hmmmmm, I see what you mean. I think it might bother me as well. I guess I wouldn't be able to help but question why he would need to make such a big show about it... as in, worst case scenario, is he not over her? But.... if you reverse the roles and it was you seeing your ex, you'd equally want to rub it in his face in the "see what you're missing out on" kind of thing. I get it. We're all human, and jealousy is part of our nature. Don't worry about it!<br />xoLady Greyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08934497862144836328noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-19111838414718762672011-03-29T07:30:12.931-04:002011-03-29T07:30:12.931-04:00That does sound a bit awkward and I think you'...That does sound a bit awkward and I think you're right to be a bit weirded out by the incident. Although you and CJ both had your moments, I think the reason why his is bothering you more is because it was so showy and involved you. When you ran into Mr. Big, it was just you who could tell him off, but when CJ saw his ex, he dragged you into it by making out with you right in front of her. Even worse, he didn't tell you why until after. Although I don't think it's anything to worry about, I think that's why it's been getting to you lately. Hopefully both of you are over your exes now and won't have anymore odd run-ins.tesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01831607001500157567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-3452087591323742452011-03-29T05:10:53.308-04:002011-03-29T05:10:53.308-04:00if you and your ex have parted ways in a friendly ...if you and your ex have parted ways in a friendly way, you wont have that urge to prove it to the other person that 'Hey look at me.. am doing so good without you'<br />Of course if one has dumped the other, and that too after a long and serious relationship... there would be that urge as you said to SLAP him/her in the face and say 'Yeah.. to hell with you'. In a similar experience, i almost did that but at the last moment it felt very immature and childish and i felt i dint have to prove anything to anyone... he dumped me. so what? I dont need to prove it to him(of all the people!) that am in a much better relationship now.. It sure gives a kick i agree but i wouldn't want my current boyfriend to feel awkward or that i still have feelings toward my ex. What's over is over.Chandanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17306046117454371506noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-21521961044839939242011-03-29T01:01:17.668-04:002011-03-29T01:01:17.668-04:00I try my best-est not to dwell in the past! Too mu...I try my best-est not to dwell in the past! Too much emotional baggage just to heavy to carry~ spring forward always~~~*<br /><br />xoLenoreNeverM♡rehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08964343661261469513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-36925626314343810332011-03-28T23:49:36.617-04:002011-03-28T23:49:36.617-04:00i think its totally normal to feel awkward about i...i think its totally normal to feel awkward about it somewhat.. its a double edged sword. its good that he had his "moment" like you said, but at the same time, it can be awkward to see someone you know they cared about...but either way, you're with him now, and he's happy to show that off!! :)Aliciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08661482257470326487noreply@blogger.com