tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post4112123224954245004..comments2023-10-26T09:15:10.583-04:00Comments on Melanie's Randomness: "How can I trust you...with my heart?"Melanie's Randomnesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11331778717585609001noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-74513232728974085752009-10-07T13:14:38.473-04:002009-10-07T13:14:38.473-04:00Hey love, I agree with what the other ladies said....Hey love, I agree with what the other ladies said. You deserve better and never believe that you don't, not for one moment. I love your new header because I love Nightmare Before Christmas, such a good movie to watch during Halloween time!Sierra https://www.blogger.com/profile/00915109851341043600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-70931787965607016482009-10-06T22:18:48.095-04:002009-10-06T22:18:48.095-04:00My first instinct? He's using you. Or like s...My first instinct? He's using you. Or like someone else said, stringing you along.<br /><br />You deserve better. But like Ice Queen said, if I were in your position, I'd probably be doing exactly the same thing you are.<br /><br />Bottom line - you gotta follow your heart. Trust your instincts. If you have any doubts at all, cut him loose - take a girlfriend or just a friend-friend with you instead so you can truly enjoy the concert without the wondering. :)Stacy Uncorkedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10084619026794128825noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-1003330093062536982009-10-06T16:28:36.228-04:002009-10-06T16:28:36.228-04:00Oh no??? Hmm..Okay why are comments being deleted?...Oh no??? Hmm..Okay why are comments being deleted?? Is anyone else having this problem?? Because 2 of them aren't showing?? =( Im sorry guys, I'm really confused here. I've had problems with my followers not showing either?? I'm gunna post on blogger help.<br /><br />In response to this blog I wrote. THank you all for your words. He is a brat. I know. And when all of you are giving me the motivation I need to leave. I think sometimes you need to hear and read how awful it seems so you like "Get the Picture" sorta speak. So thank you. Very much. I really don't even know what I want out this boy anymore. I have to sit down and really figure this stuff out. Thanks againMelanie's Randomnesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11331778717585609001noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-223977311871084952009-10-06T14:39:39.067-04:002009-10-06T14:39:39.067-04:00I'm the worst person to be giving relationship...I'm the worst person to be giving relationship advice. My boyfriend and I have been on and off before, so I know what it's like waiting around for someone, hoping it will work out or amount to something...sigh.<br />In any case, I hope he eventually responds and you have fun at the concert, with or without him. You deserve it. Don't let him ruin your week/month/life. You're a pretty girl, so I have a feeling soon you will meet a hot awesome guy and Mess will wake up and realize what a douche he was for ignoring you. But then it will be too late for him...muwhahaha!Jennifer Fabuloushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07521908385026885699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-62109557013693563962009-10-06T14:04:18.275-04:002009-10-06T14:04:18.275-04:00Glad you get to see a band you really enjoy! Sound...Glad you get to see a band you really enjoy! Sounds fun. :) Have a great day hun!Simply Colettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06286704276318895868noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-55219391974245618922009-10-06T13:25:28.610-04:002009-10-06T13:25:28.610-04:00Ya know your all right. It's really complicate...Ya know your all right. It's really complicated this whole thing and I wish I could write out all 3 years of stuff that has gone on. I've actually dated other people while he was dating other girls but I guess it's the oh we eventually seem to be coming back to each other in our lives one way or another that I'm trying to see if it means more. He is a douche, he is stringing me along, and I really think I need to just leave. The thing is I know he'd just let me go if I left. So I'm trying to hold out to see what happens next kinda stupidly I now think. But yeah, I think I need to slap myself back into reality.Melanie's Randomnesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11331778717585609001noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-23233067256041559652009-10-06T13:00:31.600-04:002009-10-06T13:00:31.600-04:00The Mess sounds like a douche. I would tell you to...The Mess sounds like a douche. I would tell you to get rid of him, but I know that if I were in your place I would totally stick around too. I guess all I can say is that eventually something will happen one way or the other.Ice Queenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09280208418162358648noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-21504568202879481002009-10-06T12:55:23.862-04:002009-10-06T12:55:23.862-04:00Hi Melanie,
How old is this guy? It seems prett...Hi Melanie, <br /><br />How old is this guy? It seems pretty obvious to me he's stringing you along; it doesn't show much consideration to you when he won't acknowledge your messages.<br /><br />Have you two ever sat down just to talk things out so you could tell him how you feel? I know we don't always have to have all the answers but maybe the relationship you both have needs to be defined. This sounds like an emotional rollercoaster for you. Maybe I'm wrong.<br /><br /> It seems you're trying pretty hard to make him appreciate you. It would be interesting to see what would happen if you broke contact or showed interest in someone else, but I wouldn't expect that to happen. I know how hard relationships can be, I've been through a lot.<br /><br /> You said, "I really wish I could watch everything that's going on from outside because I could see how ridiculous it really is." Well, first of all I wouldn't necessarily call it ridiculous; things can get complicated between two people and our emotions will keep us from making rational decisions sometimes. I know. But to me the fact you made that statement shows you realize you're spinning your wheels. <br /><br />I haven't read your whole blog yet but if you really want to get a better picture of this situation I'd suggest going over your history, and re-reading any posts you've made about him to see if you notice any pattern.<br /><br />Ideally, what would you like out of this relationship? Do you think someone you refer to as 'The Mess' would make a good long-term partner?Barryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04641761671561288846noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-44818639000468179372009-10-06T09:28:39.724-04:002009-10-06T09:28:39.724-04:00I write so lil of what actually goes on. Just tidb...I write so lil of what actually goes on. Just tidbits, so maybe I'm getting lost in translation. It's the chemistry & the shared history and every good day we've had. He's also one of my best friends and he switches from friend, boyfriendish, to nothing then back through the list again. I really wish I could watch everything that's going on from outside because I could see how ridicolous it really is. Maybe I'm a creature of habit. Or maybe my refusal to see the bigger picture is my still lingering insecurities and immaturities. It does seem hopeless. I'll think about what you said Zek.Melanie's Randomnesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11331778717585609001noreply@blogger.com