tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post4030996504159850680..comments2023-10-26T09:15:10.583-04:00Comments on Melanie's Randomness: Never in a million years would I have expected this…Melanie's Randomnesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11331778717585609001noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-29727030371710177872010-09-01T13:00:56.037-04:002010-09-01T13:00:56.037-04:00ugh that sucks! My biggest piece of advice: DO NOT...ugh that sucks! My biggest piece of advice: DO NOT EVER WRITE HIM BACK. EVER.<br />I have my own version of "The Mess." We've been broken up 4.5 years now, and I've been with M for over 3 years...and my Mess still thinks he can contact me and that it's ok. And it's NOT. Thankfully he's stopped calling/texting, but I still get the occasional email that I stopped responding to. Because if you respond, it only encourages them to KEEP CONTACTING YOU. You're better off letting it lie and taking your chances with running into him at the show.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07522737346381837048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-48635415703592983202010-08-31T22:31:18.376-04:002010-08-31T22:31:18.376-04:00stick to your guts hun, I probably wouldn't ha...stick to your guts hun, I probably wouldn't have responded either ; )Lady Greyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08934497862144836328noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-1514378937282086482010-08-31T20:40:46.521-04:002010-08-31T20:40:46.521-04:00Wow. I'm dumbfounded that after all the crap h...Wow. I'm dumbfounded that after all the crap he's pulled, he thinks he can randomly send you a friendly message. Ummm wtf.<br /><br />Yeah, screw him. Go to the concert with your sweet bf. Ignore the a-hole. :)Jennifer Fabuloushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07521908385026885699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-13848863244557297852010-08-31T19:41:45.564-04:002010-08-31T19:41:45.564-04:00You shouldn't let him ruin your fun. If you gu...You shouldn't let him ruin your fun. If you guys both go to the concert, what's the chance of you guys bumping into each other in such a big crowd anyways?btd.https://www.blogger.com/profile/08318451649609635491noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-77096655348035133712010-08-31T19:01:27.421-04:002010-08-31T19:01:27.421-04:00Yikes that's a lot of drama! You should total...Yikes that's a lot of drama! You should totally go and ignore him if he's there. Good luck!THE ALTERNATIVE WIFEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07593507545118567343noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-32814653759198982172010-08-31T17:33:38.446-04:002010-08-31T17:33:38.446-04:00Bathwater has great comment here~ completely agree...Bathwater has great comment here~ completely agree with him!<br />Enjoy it!! & be strong dear!<br /><br />xoLenoreNeverM♡rehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08964343661261469513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-21425464641342858062010-08-31T17:32:39.987-04:002010-08-31T17:32:39.987-04:00Yikes, I wonder why he's contacting you again....Yikes, I wonder why he's contacting you again. I think you should still go to the concert with ur bf and have some fun. It is you favorite band after all! If you guys run into each other then perhaps say hello, but I don't think you're obligated to stand there and hangout with the mess:) <br /><br />TheOwlsCloset.blogspot.comohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07990079657089938472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-55619543842899652942010-08-31T17:11:43.304-04:002010-08-31T17:11:43.304-04:00well shoot.
i've never heard of those bands.
g...well shoot.<br />i've never heard of those bands.<br />genreElle Seeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01700861489513811406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-85060764961706839882010-08-31T15:29:03.426-04:002010-08-31T15:29:03.426-04:00Who cares if he's there or not. You're go...Who cares if he's there or not. You're going with your bf whom you're crazy about and that's all that matters.<br /><br />If they meet, well, they meet. Just introduce them and not make a big deal over it or your bf might think you still harbor feelings for him.<br /><br />Go. Have fun. Nothing is better than live music.Little Ms Bloggerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17208746635976950728noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-33226540242397365302010-08-31T12:15:50.538-04:002010-08-31T12:15:50.538-04:00hey! so im a new follower and im not sure how deep...hey! so im a new follower and im not sure how deep the mess with The Mess actually is, however DONT DO IT! dont call him to ask if he'll be there! trust me i have my own mess, but i call him Mr. D for douchebag. anyway, dont do it. screw em, he is lookin for excuses to talk to you prob. why else would he call to tell you about the new band in town? Mr. D once called because i left my tweezers in his apartmnt. you think he wanted to give me bk the tweezers? NO he wanted to have a nice romp is what he wanted, and The Mess just wants your attention and is lookin for a way to get it im sure.Constarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00431858057445046021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-2201805699760984462010-08-31T11:05:00.122-04:002010-08-31T11:05:00.122-04:00Ugh. I'd ignore him.
oxoxo
DenaleeUgh. I'd ignore him.<br />oxoxo<br />DenaleeSilver Strandshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13726379937631692406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-77668163121724615232010-08-31T10:56:47.287-04:002010-08-31T10:56:47.287-04:00Ack! Remember, he wasn't worth it for a reason...Ack! Remember, he wasn't worth it for a reason!! You're better off without him! :)Melissa Blakehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09975477573895818097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-36014701199422109632010-08-31T10:05:07.847-04:002010-08-31T10:05:07.847-04:00Avoid the mess, but please don't let him ruin ...Avoid the mess, but please don't let him ruin your fun. Go to the show, don't contact the mess.<br /><br />I understand the dilemma though, when I moved out of living situation mid year I never wanted to see the girl again, I avoided a lot of friends parties to avoid her. However unlike you, I didn't have someone to support me in the tough situation like how you have CJ.tesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01831607001500157567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-90855161199468214832010-08-31T08:06:21.025-04:002010-08-31T08:06:21.025-04:00He might just want to be friends or it might be so...He might just want to be friends or it might be some selfish trap. The I don't want you but I don't want anyone else having you trap. Knowing your history it IS best you just stay away.Bathwaterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18286545216706532921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-82862107349843753982010-08-31T07:36:18.790-04:002010-08-31T07:36:18.790-04:00I thinks its the best if you dont answer him...Its...I thinks its the best if you dont answer him...Its so strange that he is getting in touch with you now...Hmmm...wonderful why...:)<br />Kisses,sweetie<br />Today is the last day of August...Wish you a great one:)<br />HugsDiana Mieczanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15261207538442821812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-60015027603662110112010-08-31T05:13:29.925-04:002010-08-31T05:13:29.925-04:00ughh. i'd just ignore it and act like the emai...ughh. i'd just ignore it and act like the email never came!khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12280510323058001105noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-86796108479732453442010-08-31T02:12:24.371-04:002010-08-31T02:12:24.371-04:00Dont let him ruin what could be an awesome night s...Dont let him ruin what could be an awesome night seeing one of your favourite bands and if you know them you have to go and say hello :)<br /><br />If he's there just be an adult dont show him any emotion and be all over the new man I'm sure he'll get the message pretty quick! :)Shibbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15896933227306775041noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-18355123953255882612010-08-31T01:10:17.707-04:002010-08-31T01:10:17.707-04:00oh lady, i'm sorry! what is it with men? they ...oh lady, i'm sorry! what is it with men? they know when to come back at the wrong time EVERY time! i hope that everything turns out ok....and you're right. i do think cj is the real deal :)Aliciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08661482257470326487noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-7755549387122156632010-08-31T01:09:53.158-04:002010-08-31T01:09:53.158-04:00I say let it roll off your back. If you're hap...I say let it roll off your back. If you're happy with this new guy it doesn't matter what the old one is doing! But that's just me. It's about your happiness not anyone elses. <br /><br /><a href="http://ramblingofasmalltowngirl.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow"> Ramblings of a Small Town Girl</a>Kaylahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00791493835243956758noreply@blogger.com