tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post3679982142802239971..comments2023-10-26T09:15:10.583-04:00Comments on Melanie's Randomness: Honesty Makes the World Go Round…Melanie's Randomnesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11331778717585609001noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-2007413020464870682011-05-06T21:03:43.185-04:002011-05-06T21:03:43.185-04:00M and I are 100% honest with each other. We call i...M and I are 100% honest with each other. We call it Brutal Honesty. We are secure in the fact that we both love each other, and neither are going anywhere that we can be 100% honest about everything with each other. Honesty is definitely key.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07522737346381837048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-60356342501020148262011-05-06T19:50:05.008-04:002011-05-06T19:50:05.008-04:00Very interesting post, and blog as well.
Honest...Very interesting post, and blog as well. <br /><br />Honesty is important, but timing when to tell them to your partner or loved one is also crucial. And there are some things that are better kept as secrets, because it can hurt a lot of people. <br /><br />By your examples though,I agree that relationships based on lies and dishonesty will blow up some time in both their faces. It won't survive.Scarlethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03330793338813508704noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-90385491695233418452011-05-06T16:40:03.756-04:002011-05-06T16:40:03.756-04:00I've found that people only listen to advice w...I've found that people only listen to advice when they are ready to really hear you.Little Ms Bloggerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17208746635976950728noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-56128190142215238492011-05-06T15:24:01.715-04:002011-05-06T15:24:01.715-04:00My husband and I went through a really hard time a...My husband and I went through a really hard time a little over a year ago. He HATES to talk about money and wasn't telling me about some major issues money wise. When it finally came out things were so much worse than they could have been had he told me sooner. We're still working on fixing all the issues that his secrets created and we're now working together to make it easier for him to open up and for me to trust him again.<br /><br />Secrets, white lies and lies, in my opinion, cause nothing but trouble. I love my husband and married him for better or for worse but I can say that it really rocked our young marriage to find out the things he wasn't telling me.<br /><br />It's much better today and slowly but surely we're getting better. But I truly think each of your friends need to be honest in their relationships. Even the smallest lie can get big with time.Krysten @ Why Girls Are Weirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07290616156300143483noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-18245883445094116672011-05-06T15:09:27.890-04:002011-05-06T15:09:27.890-04:00honesty and trust are the two biggest keys to a so...honesty and trust are the two biggest keys to a solid relationship.<br /><br />a good kisser definitely is important too. ;)Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05940369749048830429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-4446712157485507512011-05-06T14:50:43.767-04:002011-05-06T14:50:43.767-04:00Hey. I value honesty more than I value most things...Hey. I value honesty more than I value most things. I have NEVER lied to my boyfriend, or best friends.<br /><br />I know how you feel when you know that other couples aren't being honest with each other.<br /><br />One of my close friends cheats on her boyfriend. Oh, and her boyfriend only thinks she's been with only one boy but she's been with PLENTY. She lies to him like every day. She even lies to ME.<br /><br />I hate liars more than I hate most people in the world. I'll never be like them..Dori the Gianthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03788389711272504033noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-40047332180842924362011-05-06T14:43:09.490-04:002011-05-06T14:43:09.490-04:00I'm totally honest when it comes to me and JJ,...I'm totally honest when it comes to me and JJ, we're so open and easy with each other. But is all so natural its never been a forced openness between us. If there's something bugging me i'll tell him. Or he can work out that something is wrong. Even if its just through msn. <br /><br />However, i'm really not honest at all with my parents. I just can't talk to them at all. Its not that I don't want too, just my mum makes it so hard, she just is very unapproachable and jumps off on the wrong things and can be very selfish at times. Its bad I know but I just can't deal with it and its easier to keep quiet. Even when most of it revolves around me wanting to move to America, of which she knows little at all. <br /><br />I can't face that talk yet!<br /><br />Call me chicken lolRachaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17128754833604987577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-88779518226767153442011-05-06T13:36:18.530-04:002011-05-06T13:36:18.530-04:00Nice pics ♥ I'm not in a relationship, so it&#...Nice pics ♥ I'm not in a relationship, so it's hard to answer the question..Linhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10233643130401808485noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-51436637053004403732011-05-06T13:17:08.977-04:002011-05-06T13:17:08.977-04:00You make some amazing points here. CJ is lucky to...You make some amazing points here. CJ is lucky to have you.Tiffany Kadanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08887874943048853535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-66353706287141342382011-05-06T13:10:16.431-04:002011-05-06T13:10:16.431-04:00mmm it depends I think, most times honesty is the ...mmm it depends I think, most times honesty is the way to go but sometimes there are things that are better left unknown. at least for me, sometimes I just don't need to know all the details if I know they are safe!noonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16454697807016901341noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-68168753660973877672011-05-06T11:55:35.231-04:002011-05-06T11:55:35.231-04:00goodness...that is a lot going on. but i can clear...goodness...that is a lot going on. but i can clearly see your point, honestly is really the only way to go...khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12280510323058001105noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-54178130267423463882011-05-06T11:30:19.953-04:002011-05-06T11:30:19.953-04:00Wow you have a lot of friends with honesty issues!...Wow you have a lot of friends with honesty issues! That one friend, in particular, who is screwing around with all the guys, is heading towards a giant trainwreck. I cringe just thinking about it. :S<br /><br />Ri and I have had our share of honesty issues. But we've worked through them.<br /><br />My bff is a prime example of what you're trying to say though. She should be friends with your friends. Lol. She's been lying to her boyfriend for three years now about everything. She cheats on him and pretends to be religious for him and lies about stuff his exes to do her, so he hates them and feels sorry for her. He's been slowly finding out the truth, but he's so in love with her, he doesn't really seem to care. But to me, it's sickening. She's basing their entire relationship on lies and it is bound to blow up in her face eventually. I don't understand it...Jennifer Fabuloushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07521908385026885699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-30608498171917450042011-05-06T11:05:09.502-04:002011-05-06T11:05:09.502-04:00Always! I feel like we wouldn't have the relat...Always! I feel like we wouldn't have the relationship that we do without sharing everything as we have.Jocelynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14211712423069242505noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-27307928230397514552011-05-06T10:28:38.437-04:002011-05-06T10:28:38.437-04:00I agree honesty is much better than anything, no g...I agree honesty is much better than anything, no guilt no shame and no truth coming back to bite you in the butt later lolangel6033https://www.blogger.com/profile/08021557227371246549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-82593160183501016782011-05-06T09:34:36.897-04:002011-05-06T09:34:36.897-04:00My boyfriend & I definitely are honest with ea...My boyfriend & I definitely are honest with each other, even when the truth hurts. We just openly say whatever it may be to each other. Definitely works a lot better than beating around the bush.Audrey Allurehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04308037894341272695noreply@blogger.com