tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post2948016655144977909..comments2023-10-26T09:15:10.583-04:00Comments on Melanie's Randomness: Showerliners: A Post about Relationships & Diets....Melanie's Randomnesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11331778717585609001noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-32790772438531315242011-09-04T11:03:27.502-04:002011-09-04T11:03:27.502-04:00I know that I have done this before...But nowadays...I know that I have done this before...But nowadays, I'm just like, WHATEVER, if he can't handle it, he can't handle me. lol. It's more my boyfriend that is concerned with that now...and I tell him, "I don't care if you've gained weight. We're getting older, we're busy and lazy when we actually get home." But...I told him, if it bothers him, I don't mind if he wants to spend money on the gym. Everyone wants to feel good about themselves.Nicolettehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04235387990495348455noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-23272050221990371402011-09-01T09:43:45.868-04:002011-09-01T09:43:45.868-04:00I'm sure the worst thing that happens when you...I'm sure the worst thing that happens when you job in the shower while he is getting ready is he starts thinking, "Damn I wish I could get back into he shower with HER!"Bathwaterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18286545216706532921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-4925907230235673962011-08-31T21:36:47.062-04:002011-08-31T21:36:47.062-04:00Some times everyone just feels self conscious or n...Some times everyone just feels self conscious or needs privacy even if you have been married for 19 years like me! xoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-91870858565833853012011-08-31T18:34:56.807-04:002011-08-31T18:34:56.807-04:00I wish you good luck losing those 10 pounds. It wi...I wish you good luck losing those 10 pounds. It will make all the difference in the world.<br />I think the shower curtain shadow just looks weird and makes our bodies a funny shape. So I can understand that part.<br />My ex would not take off his shirt around me.... ever! in over 3 years I seen him without his shirt off once.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13668283740463763997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-28956375213400357262011-08-31T17:48:40.138-04:002011-08-31T17:48:40.138-04:00I wish I could remember, because I'm sure I di...I wish I could remember, because I'm sure I did... but it's been 10 years since we were a new couple.Pretty Zestyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05066119133197587199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-55668932709125106632011-08-31T17:24:29.796-04:002011-08-31T17:24:29.796-04:00oh, and i found you through Mormon in Manhattan, j...oh, and i found you through Mormon in Manhattan, just so you know!<br /><br /><a href="http://libbylibbylibbyonthelabel.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">Libby on the Label</a>Libbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17131478228736894296noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-46467948594457361622011-08-31T17:22:57.180-04:002011-08-31T17:22:57.180-04:00this made me laugh because i had the same issue wi...this made me laugh because i had the same issue with my fiance around 2 years ago! he wanted to shower with me sooo badly and i was in no way, no how going to do that. he would see even more of me and i just wasnt having that. i am soo self concious (like really badly and have also gained 10-15 lbs while being with him..damn boys!) and when i told my friends about this issue they thought i was an idiot. they said "just do it, who cares! he wont notice any supposed flaws you have, all he wants is to be naked with you!". So i finally did it and realized it was no big deal at all. We've lived together for about 2 years now and i am sooo comfortable with him now, it's shocking. i always thought i'd be the girl who hid herself and who always kept her makeup on but i am FAR from that now! it feels so good! good luck!!Libbyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17131478228736894296noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-26138073387071389242011-08-31T13:56:45.403-04:002011-08-31T13:56:45.403-04:00goodluck on your weightloss journey, and good for ...goodluck on your weightloss journey, and good for you for deciding to do it for yourself and no one else. i'm married and hell i'm self-concious in front of my husband, friends, everyone! <br /><br /> i'm hosting a giveaway on my blog for some fashion illustration cards, hope you'll check it out!Nuhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16949599141577685866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-85034805366568573752011-08-31T13:26:56.733-04:002011-08-31T13:26:56.733-04:00I've been married for 17 years and I still get...I've been married for 17 years and I still get a little uncomfortable being naked around my husband. I think it's normal, but it is important to feel good about your own body. I think you've set a great goal for yourself!Susan R. Millshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09578747592345750650noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-18859302102057419222011-08-31T13:11:17.689-04:002011-08-31T13:11:17.689-04:00I totally know what you mean. Over the years that ...I totally know what you mean. Over the years that my husband and I have been together, I've gained about 10 or so pounds - I blame it entirely on being married and having kids! There are certainly moments that I'd rather not be undressed and 'moving' - be it in the shower or to walk across the room - in front of him. Maybe it's silly, but I definitely feel a little self-consious about it.Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07387012440873862462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-1001867385020506312011-08-31T11:37:41.771-04:002011-08-31T11:37:41.771-04:00Sometimes my guy likes to light candles at night.....Sometimes my guy likes to light candles at night...sometimes I think...can't we just stay in the dark but then I remember...some people think this is romantic =)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-74740743832821393412011-08-31T10:30:58.945-04:002011-08-31T10:30:58.945-04:00Although I definitely do not have the perfect body...Although I definitely do not have the perfect body I've never minded being naked around a serious significant other. My husband and I have showered together or done the whole "I'll shower while you finish getting ready" deal. It's just something you get used to.<br /><br />He loves you for you, whether or not you have the "perfect" body. And honestly, you're beautiful and you know he sees that.Krysten @ Why Girls Are Weirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07290616156300143483noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-73775966719762427252011-08-31T09:02:55.949-04:002011-08-31T09:02:55.949-04:00I have never had this experience myself. I think y...I have never had this experience myself. I think you just need to realize that CJ loves you as you are - wobbly bits and all! :)Cafe Fashionistahttp://cafefashionista.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-17716446217451887812011-08-30T19:38:19.955-04:002011-08-30T19:38:19.955-04:00aww, that's a sweet story!aww, that's a sweet story!Melissa Blakehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09975477573895818097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-61406049510218139232011-08-30T19:34:53.020-04:002011-08-30T19:34:53.020-04:00Ha! I feel that way all the time! And my husband t...Ha! I feel that way all the time! And my husband truly notices nothing when it comes to wobbly bits. Nothing. Zip. And, still, after seven years I hesitate.Tiffany Kadanihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08887874943048853535noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-26166757345084211642011-08-30T16:39:35.019-04:002011-08-30T16:39:35.019-04:00Don't fret, pretty lady. Every woman feels th...Don't fret, pretty lady. Every woman feels that way.<br /><br />And now that I'm close to 40lbs heavier and carrying his baby, it's even worse. <br /><br />Probably b/c 30 of those 40lbs are sitting in my thighs. EEEK!Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05940369749048830429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-28558699951304050252011-08-30T16:32:35.809-04:002011-08-30T16:32:35.809-04:00If we both had to be out the door by a certain tim...If we both had to be out the door by a certain time, it would be madness. I would purposefully wake up an hour before him just so we wouldn't fight over the bathroom.<br /><br />http://www.glamkittenslitterbox.com/<br />Twitter: @GlamKitten88Bonniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04872576992263682398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-73403568813003869842011-08-30T16:12:08.766-04:002011-08-30T16:12:08.766-04:00I still get very shy around Joe, but I think that&...I still get very shy around Joe, but I think that's because for months at a time we don't see each other. So we have to regain that level of normality when it comes to dressing and showing in front of each other. I guess in a way it keeps us from being too settled and still acting young around each other. <br /><br />Regardless of that I still would like to get my figure back to how it was at University and go back down a dress size. Here's hoping!Rachaelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17128754833604987577noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-59029868121901085042011-08-30T15:35:46.369-04:002011-08-30T15:35:46.369-04:00HAHA yes!! I think everyone has, don't worry :...HAHA yes!! I think everyone has, don't worry :) I'm working on improving too!khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12280510323058001105noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-90583872955110625152011-08-30T11:11:59.315-04:002011-08-30T11:11:59.315-04:00There are still times when I feel shy to undress i...There are still times when I feel shy to undress in front of my hubby, and he doesn´t really understand why, but i guess it´s normal. you take time to completely get used to it.creativefashiongleehttp://creativefashionglee.com/noreply@blogger.com