tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post290366899219739257..comments2023-10-26T09:15:10.583-04:00Comments on Melanie's Randomness: The "M" word...Melanie's Randomnesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11331778717585609001noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-10067405654201411562010-06-20T13:24:17.450-04:002010-06-20T13:24:17.450-04:00Melanie, sounds like you've got a good one the...Melanie, sounds like you've got a good one there!! Do let us know how things go! :)Melissa Blakehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09975477573895818097noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-7749978176024762292010-06-20T08:28:45.163-04:002010-06-20T08:28:45.163-04:00I don't even have a boyfriend... so sadly, no ...I don't even have a boyfriend... so sadly, no :( Feels like my life for that is slipping away, it sucks lol :(Sheri, RNhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11854862552801644449noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-47123862397692569612010-06-19T18:07:56.223-04:002010-06-19T18:07:56.223-04:00I like the 3 different situations of the "M&q...I like the 3 different situations of the "M" word here. 3 Completely different situations! <br /><br />You've been with a guy for only a month and he's already bringing it up? Is he 30? Or are you his first gf?? I say RUN. <br /><br />Amber<br /><a href="http://ambersmouthwash.blogspot.com" rel="nofollow">ambersmouthwash</a>Amber Lucas A Mused Bloghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13552215994993062068noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-72318392498923198952010-06-19T15:49:37.585-04:002010-06-19T15:49:37.585-04:00I was nowhere near ready to be married to settle d...I was nowhere near ready to be married to settle down at 25. Everyone has their own path!BonBon Rose Girls Kristinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10699626979106427874noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-33858842967181538152010-06-19T15:02:34.801-04:002010-06-19T15:02:34.801-04:00haha, everyone seems to be getting married this su...haha, everyone seems to be getting married this summer. I still don't know what to think about it all, i'm totally for marriage, just not blowing all your money on a wedding that you won't really remember and would be totally embarassing!<br />xxxSarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10126196150095830672noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-83108771511923607702010-06-19T13:26:05.736-04:002010-06-19T13:26:05.736-04:00I know what you mean, the m word is all around me ...I know what you mean, the m word is all around me as well. I think I'm going to 8 weddings this summer!<br /><br />Good luck figuring out what you want to say!Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00221135813019771640noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-22001810669383191142010-06-19T08:11:32.582-04:002010-06-19T08:11:32.582-04:00intresting postintresting postAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05215875887199144236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-45497714783881249232010-06-19T07:08:04.644-04:002010-06-19T07:08:04.644-04:00Haha interesting, I'm sort of in a similar boa...Haha interesting, I'm sort of in a similar boat as you. My boyfriend & I have been together for almost 2 years and he's already expecting us to live together & grow old together & he's actually the one talking about weddings haha.Audrey Allurehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04308037894341272695noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-57614313295229963702010-06-18T23:16:26.760-04:002010-06-18T23:16:26.760-04:00my marriage is ending very soon. does that count? ...my marriage is ending very soon. does that count? haha. great post :)Amy Vhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17200771128423411520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-69125675285072383772010-06-18T22:20:38.038-04:002010-06-18T22:20:38.038-04:00oh the pressures of marriage!! :(oh the pressures of marriage!! :(angel6033https://www.blogger.com/profile/08021557227371246549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-84447009873940298452010-06-18T20:53:32.853-04:002010-06-18T20:53:32.853-04:00oh god. im sooooooooo tired of the marriage thing,...oh god. im sooooooooo tired of the marriage thing, you have no idea!<br /><br />p.s. please check your inbox (yahoo). I emailed you.Farnnayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09833826535761502269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-24897665762679954072010-06-18T19:47:42.558-04:002010-06-18T19:47:42.558-04:00Wow, marraige, that's a really big step. But i...Wow, marraige, that's a really big step. But if your not ready to get married, and he loves you, he should understand. It's like testing wether or not your meant for each other (i mean declining maraige and seeing what he will do)LadyNanseihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10951313650011349110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-83803475246809277332010-06-18T16:39:40.876-04:002010-06-18T16:39:40.876-04:00Me and Balazs are asked all the time when we get m...Me and Balazs are asked all the time when we get married...We are together over 10 years and only now we are talking about making it legal:) ...I have 6 wedding to attend this summer....A lot, huh?<br />Kisses sweetie and enjoy your weeked...That top photo is so funny:)<br />MuahDiana Mieczanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15261207538442821812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-22552003129487159962010-06-18T14:59:25.385-04:002010-06-18T14:59:25.385-04:00lovely blog!!
xoxolovely blog!!<br /><br />xoxoFashion Mattershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13083547367275048703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-11972318660729656042010-06-18T14:19:22.569-04:002010-06-18T14:19:22.569-04:00Well if it IS in the water like Sara says I'm ...Well if it IS in the water like Sara says I'm drinking the cool-aid made from distilled water instead. Take your time, time, time.Bathwaterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18286545216706532921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-78115735387762269972010-06-18T14:02:19.020-04:002010-06-18T14:02:19.020-04:00i've got 2 more weddings to go to this summer,...i've got 2 more weddings to go to this summer, alread been to 2 in the last month. it must be in the water...C'est La Viehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17075089241572350692noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-80854906708357664532010-06-18T13:47:40.002-04:002010-06-18T13:47:40.002-04:00The M word... I wish I didn't heard about that...The M word... I wish I didn't heard about that so I would be a fabulous single forever. Hahaha!<br /><br />Melanie, don't forget me when you decide to take the plunge... I will be your wedding photographer. xoxo<br /><br />Happy weekend sweetie! :-)Leahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12180073176308698115noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-40270308832480473152010-06-18T13:13:07.302-04:002010-06-18T13:13:07.302-04:00Well I'm getting married next year so that'...Well I'm getting married next year so that's my brush with it. Definitely talk to the boy though and tell him to relax a bit! There's no rush!Katy Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03279599285531194519noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-12300931821462410472010-06-18T12:27:59.498-04:002010-06-18T12:27:59.498-04:00Went through the same thing at your age. Everyone ...Went through the same thing at your age. Everyone you know will get married. I didn't & I survived. Frankly I don't really think marriage is for me. <br /><br />I want to meet a man and fall in love, commit to each other and have a family. I don't need the legal/church thing. I don't want the big 30K party because if I every had 30K I'm not feeding other people with that money. Um no!<br /><br />So let others do what fits for them, celebrate them as a friend should and make your own decision for what works for you. Tell what's his name that you need time to know him before you can talk marriage. Or just tell him what you really feel about marriage.<br /><br />P.S. When to dinner with 3 of my married friends last weekend one literally said she hates her husband and the other two were full of complaints. Me I listened politely, let them vent and told them about all the fun things I'm doing. Life is different for all of us. Find what makes you happy.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-18742524387019114232010-06-18T12:22:54.392-04:002010-06-18T12:22:54.392-04:00Well Melanie, I can tell you that our marriage has...Well Melanie, I can tell you that our marriage has been a lovely rollercoaster. 28+ years and I wouldn't trade any of it - event he tough stuff.<br />oxox<br />DenaleeSilver Strandshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13726379937631692406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-62199189840969051602010-06-18T11:48:17.323-04:002010-06-18T11:48:17.323-04:00It's pretty much ridiculous how much the M wor...It's pretty much ridiculous how much the M word has come up lately. And I found out last weekend my best friend wants me to be a bridesmaid! I'm really excited for her :)<br /><br />But here's the deal Mel - the boy you're DATING has not proposed to you. It's normal to talk about it and put it on the table because that may mean he really values your relationship- he may not be ready to pop the question. You need TIME to get to know each other.<br /><br />Don't let outside events make you feel pressured. Just because the M is all around you - doesn't mean you're in the same boat! Keep in mind that marriage, babies, and engagements happen - but that doesn't mean that you are ready to do any of the above or should feel pressured in anyway.<br /><br />Deep breath, take this one slow girl!!Rich Life Revivalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03991590226341502032noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-41864810048526962922010-06-18T11:28:23.024-04:002010-06-18T11:28:23.024-04:00thank god I haven't had a brush with marriage ...thank god I haven't had a brush with marriage yet, it all sounds so overwhelming<br /><br />however situation 3 is similar to something a good friend of mine is going through. our mother's are friends and I guess her mom told my mom (woah this sounds complicated haha) that she really didn't like her daughter's boyfriend because even though my friend is going to have a good career as a marine biologist her mother still thought she should marry someone that could provide for her and her current boyfriend wants to be a teacher in inner city schools which wasn't "Good enough" oh boy haha<br /><br />just remember even with all of the pressure, do what is best for you, there is no "right" agetesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01831607001500157567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-81082768472053958342010-06-18T11:22:46.761-04:002010-06-18T11:22:46.761-04:00If your new guy (congrats by the way!) is truly sa...If your new guy (congrats by the way!) is truly sane and indeed nice, he won't think it's weird at all that you need more than a MONTH to decide if you'd like to get hitched. :)<br /><br />Marriage is touching me all the time these days. I wish it would keep it's hands to itself...JUST MEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15663723046451628228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-4995999297194789742010-06-18T10:17:34.772-04:002010-06-18T10:17:34.772-04:00Wow. That's a whole lot of stuff about marriag...Wow. That's a whole lot of stuff about marriage going on lately! It's kinda crazy. I'm only 21 and I definitely don't plan to get married anytime soon, so no brushes with marriage for me lately. Lol.Rachel @ The Haute Noteshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11050054196437279227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4107310654054360666.post-6055904179693509042010-06-18T08:08:48.358-04:002010-06-18T08:08:48.358-04:00ha luckily i haven't gotten there yet... good ...ha luckily i haven't gotten there yet... good luck... :| haJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07813478030682306062noreply@blogger.com